Empowered or disempowered?

I believe it is part of my dharma to help people on their journey.  If you had a reading with me, you know that I take what I do very seriously.  My goal is to give a client the information they need to make positive, loving changes in their lives.  With that in mind, I want clients to leave a session with feelings of hope, joy and empowerment.  From time-to-time, I've encountered clients who have had bad experiences with other psychics and healers.  If a psychic and/or healer is coming from a place of 'service to the collective', there should be feelings of empowerment.  Sadly, sometimes there aren't.  Think about your last session with a psychic and/or healer, how did you feel after the fact?  Good?  Bad? Empowered?  Disempowered? Here are some tips to think about before booking that second session:

After the session:  did you feel positive and optimistic or despondent and hopeless?

After the session:  did you feel you had choices you needed to reflect upon and/or decisions to make?

Do you feel all your questions were answered?

Do you feel all your concerns were addressed?

Did the reader/healer encourage you to take time to reflect upon the session so you could make the right choices for you?

Did the reader/healer insist you had to 'do this' or 'do that' because she/he said so?

Do you feel the reader/healer had your best interests at heart or was the reading about him/her?

Do you feel the reader was wasting your time?

Do you feel your time was valued?

Do you feel your money was well spent?

Do you feel the reader was coming from a place of love and support or ego and dependence?

Was he/she insisting you book additional sessions because you 'needed' their help or did he/she indicate that you should come back for another session when you were ready?

Would you recommend this reader/healer to one of your friends, family members, co-workers, etc?

A reading or healing session is a vehicle for change, growth and healing.  If you don't feel your time, money and energy was well-spent, then continue to search until you find someone who is the right fit for you.  The right healer/psychic is out there waiting to help you and EMPOWER you.